树欲静而风不息，子欲养而亲不在

I learned this from James. It means " when you wish to spend time with your parents but they are already gone" I am writing this topic because I read my dearest cousin brother, Jerry's blog today... I was touched the way he expressed how much he missed his dad ( my 2nd Uncle). When I heard the bad news for the very first time, I was upset but did not cry at all. When I read his blog today, I was in tears. I emailed him once for his loss. The reason I did not write much because I knew he's tough and strong no matter what had happened to him. Life will still go on without anyone but best memories will always on our mind. Only time will ease the pain. May "2 pek" rest in peace!